Why Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder broke up
Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder have one of the cutest relationships in Hollywood. got engaged and married all within nearly a year of dating, but now Reed was friendly with Somerhalder's ex and co-star, Nina Dobrev. While the details aren't totally clear, their relationship can be traced back to when Ian used to date Nina Dobrev and Nikki was married to. Ian Somerhalder found out that dating after Nina Dobrev was a hard time. He told the Ian Somerhalder married Nikki Reed in April of
Besides having the same social circle and sexual partners in common, Ian Somerhalder, Nikki Reed and Nina Dobrev have all been heavily involved in raising awareness for animal rights. Ian and Nina adopted a cat together, and Ian and Nikki have already adopted two horses, two cats and a dog together. Which basically makes them the Brad and Angelina Jolie -Pitt of animal adoption. Given how intertwined their lives are, it makes sense that Ian and Nikki are working out so well.
All the skeletons are already out of the closet You know when you're nine months into dating somebody and you're at a friend's party and all of a sudden you meet this mystery hottie your boyfriend dated back in the day and totally forgot to mention? Well, when you go after your ex's girlfriend's ex, you already know everything there is to know about their relationship and why it didn't work out.
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There's a lot to be said about full transparency in a relationship, and you can't be surprised by your past if it's what brought you together. The only thing better than makeup sex? Rumour has it there is nothing better than revenge sex.
Knowing that you are competing with somebody who helped break your heart is a great motivator to put your best moves on your new man. Revenge chemistry is so hot it's very likely it will turn into true passion. Just be warned, when things get real, put revenge in the past.
I'm sure it can be cathartic to hook up with somebody who can help you get over your ex, but if it turns out you guys have more in common than your hatred for your ex, then put the revenge behind you. No more obsessing about your ex or spending negative energy trying to punish them by making them jealous.
Something petty and a tad bit vindictive might have brought you and your new man together, but if it works, then start focusing on the future instead of lamenting the past. Weirder things have brought couples together, so if it makes you happy, it doesn't really matter why.
So with that, we say congrats to the new Somerhalder clan! Do you think revenge hookups can work? Follow her on Twitter dagneyp You might also like: That could mean that while Dobrev was on board with the idea of a long-term relationship with Somerhalder, she felt things were moving too fast.
They grew apart romantically Getty Images Even though it's clear Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder really cared about each other, it's also clear they weren't necessarily on the same page about where their relationship was headed.
This is made evident by Somerhalder, who cryptically tweeted out"A thought for today: Years later and the speculation continues. They were in different places in their careers Getty Images One of the reasons Ian Somerhalder was supposedly more than ready to tie the knot was probably because he felt comfortable about where his life and career were at that moment. It makes sense as Somerhalder's career stretches back to the late s. Meanwhile, Nina Dobrov's acting career — which began about a decade later — only really began to blossom comparatively recently.
With Dobrev looking to expand on her fame and take more opportunities, she likely wasn't ready to put her acting career on the back-burner to pursue romance.
Nina Dobrev poses with ex Ian Somerhalder, Nikki Reed - odintsov.info
It was too tough dating a co-worker Getty Images It's actually fairly common for people to meet through work and fall in love. Mic revealed that 17 percent of the respondents to their survey met their significant other at a job.
However, it's worth noting that relationships between co-workers can be a tricky situation. Because Somerhalder and Dobrev were trying to balance romance and work, it's possible these factors strained their relationship a bit. In fact, it seems like dating a co-worker was something Dobrev had been trying to avoid.
There's a lot of vanity involved. And they're in their head, and they're kind of crazy. And you're always surrounded by beautiful people. I would prefer not to date an actor. The two confirmed their relationship inand became engaged after just six months of dating! Somerhalder and Reed tied the knot in Inevitably, Nina Dobrev was asked to comment about seeing her ex-boyfriend happily married to someone else. Dobrev had nothing but nice things to say about Somerhalder's "beautiful" wedding to Reed.
They look happy and I am happy and so I don't see why there should be a problem with that. The drama is in the media, it's not with us.
The two even managed to stay good friends after breaking up. How is that possible? As Dobrev explains"If you're with someone for [three years], obviously, there's the qualities in them that you enjoy, and it doesn't change because you're not together anymore.